Reflections on a world with too much spying

Here’s the rough draft of what occurred Memorial Day weekend. Small gathering, that is three people. Initially just two. My husband and his “friend” Lede Perez. One may note that to protect people I have on occasion changed their names for these kinds of accounts or omitted them completely if possible. This is not one of those times. She at best was doing something stupid, more likely was bribed, blackmailed, coerced, or the like into doing this on purpose. In order to understand how this works—and I note that generally speaking fictional television and film NEVER depicts this accurately…it’s as if it is verboten to do so…I’ve now seen it over and over again so often that it seems clear there’s someone training people in these kinds of things. Anyway, more background. My spouse is an immigrant with permanent residency. There are a few things that can get that yanked. There are many things that can slow the progress on the road to citizenship. He had a DUI back in 2021, and that will li